HOW TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP LIVELY

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Do you what your boring relationship to be lively? Try this few steps

* SEND MESSAGES RANDOMLY- Make him/her feel that he/she is part of your day to day activities and he/she can’t help but think about them even in your busy schedule. Even when he/she can’t reply because he/she is busy, he/she will definitely smile seeing you remember her/him the whole day.

* GIVE RAMDOM GIFTS- It’s to cute and loving when you get something un-occasionally. When it is something that you really needed, it’s cherry on the top of cake or a flower.When you get random gifts like this, first thing that melts your heart is the feeling of knowing that someones cares and remembers your every need.

* BE ROMANTIC- Sending flowers once in while to the workplace, leaving missives under the door or writing poetic verse (even if over email) may sound old school, but I’ve found that these are highly appreciated and often returned in kind.

* TRY NEW ROUTINE- Every long-term relationship has it’s boring moments. The key to getting through them is to work at making your relationship more interesting. You can’t expect things to be exciting if you two are doing the same thing every single day.  

 * LEARN TO TOUCH EACH OTHER- touching has many layers of experience. Become aware of your own reactions to touch. If your lover touches your shoulder in that special way, what reactions does that trigger within you? Talk about it. Tell your lover, what feels good. And where it feels good. Explore each other’s sensisitive areas. But don’t stop there.

* COMMUNICATION- A relationship can get extremely boring if there exists a communications gap. There are ways to bridge a communication gap- those that include active participation by both partners in doing interesting things and things that excite both you and your partner.

*DO THINGS TOGETHER- Do the things that interest the both of you. Go for a course- maybe something that involves creativity and enterprise. Music would be a wonderful option. Do things together, especially new and creative things,will work wonders in making a boring relationship more lively.

* REJOICE WITH YOUR PARTNER ALWAYS: Since Time is LimitedAfter a while you take each other for granted. But this is just an illusion. You should always remember that your time here on earth and the time with your partner is very limited. There are only so many years you can share together.