SIGNS YOU ARE IN THE WRONG RELATIONSHIP

few signs that shows you are in a wrong relationship

* YOU HAVE DIFFERENT GOALS - When you met, you talked about your future together. You made plans for your living arrangements and how you would share financial responsibility in the relationship. Maybe you talked about having children or your career goals. If things have changed and your partner no longer shares your dream, it’s a sign that this relationship is not going to have a future much longer.

 * YOU FEEL LIKE A RELATIONSHIP SPECTATOR
Another strong indicator that you may be with the wrong person is feeling like you’re watching your relationship instead of being in it. Some people refer to this as being a relationship spectator
If it seems like you are detached from romance and spontaneity, look for these additional signs:
You fake passion and interest during sex
The focus of your attention is on making your mate happy with little regard for your own needs
You regularly engage in activities with your partner that you don’t enjoy, believing: “relationships are about sacrifices.”

* YOU DON’T TRUST EACH OTHER.
Trusting your gut when something doesn’t feel right is smart. If you’ve just got a feeling that your partner is hiding something from you, it might be a sign that you either need to confront them about it or move on. Distrust in a partnership leads to accusations.

* YOU’VE LOST INTEREST.
Your partner tells you about their day but you didn’t really hear them because you’re just not interested. If you or your partner has stopped listening, it’s a sign of a communication problem. This is easily fixable if you work on active listening with your partner, but maybe you don’t want to make the effort.

 * YOU BLAME EACH OTHER.
Your partner blames you for the way things are in the relationship, but you’re blaming them at the same time. It’s likely that you both share some responsibility for the way things are.

* YOUR PARTNER CONTROLS WHAT YOU DO AND WHERE YOU GO
This might be the biggest red flag of all, Swithin says. “If you find that your partner is controlling your time with friends or family, your finances, clothing choices or how much makeup you wear, this is something to take very seriously.”

* YOUR PARTNER MAKES ALL THE RELATIONSHIP DECISIONS
You only get together when it’s convenient for your boyfriend and only hang out with his family and friends. You’ve been to all of your girlfriend’s work functions and friends’ parties, but have stopped inviting her to any social gathering you attend — she’s made it crystal clear she’s not interested.